Yes, I turn down quite a few people who come to me. Why? Because it is clear to me that want the person wants is NOT right for them. They think they desire something in life. They might be crazy to get it. But it’s damn clear to me that actually getting it would do them no good at all.
It could be that somebody comes to me desperate to get their ex-lover back; they might literally beg me to help. But I say NO if I think it isn’t right for them. It could be that getting back with an ex-lover would be damaging and would not lead them to better, more fulfilling things in life.
Therefore, I turn down the case. Or, if the client wishes, I help them to move on in life and help them find genuine happiness.